What Eight London Weddings Taught Me About Presence

SamRobbins
11 minutes ago
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8 Different weddings, same photographer...

So this is actually a wee social media trend but thought it would be a good little blog... so here we are!

After photographing so many weddings in London, I couldn’t resist looking back at eight recent city weddings and seeing what they really say.

Not about trends.Not about colour palettes (but we all know I love a colour palette)....But it's about people.

Because if you scroll through these galleries, you’ll see eight completely different weddings. Different dresses. Different venues. Different guest lists. Different weather forecasts doing unpredictable British things.

And yet every single one feels alive in the same way.

One couple stepped out of Old Marylebone Town Hall into golden afternoon light, laughing as taxis slowed and strangers clapped. Another kissed under a clear umbrella at night, satin catching the glow of street lamps like the final frame of a film. One bride wore a tailored jumpsuit with pearl buttons running down her spine. Another wrapped herself in pink faux fur and walked through London like she owned it. One dad swore he wouldn’t cry and then absolutely did.

Confetti flew in every possible direction.Veils caught in the breeze.Red buses rolled past mid-portrait like they’d been hired for production value.

This is what I love about being capturing a city wedding... London is my fave.

The city is never just a backdrop. It’s a character. The steps of the town hall. The pavements. The columns. The late night streets after everyone else has gone home. It gives every wedding an edge, a pulse, a little cinematic drama without anyone trying too hard.

But here’s the thing.

None of these couples were performing.

They weren’t trying to look like a Pinterest board. They weren’t worrying about whether their wedding was “photogenic enough.” They were focused on the experience. On hugging their people properly. On staying on the dance floor longer than planned. On crossing the road in wedding outfits like it was completely normal.

And that’s why the photos work, and that's what they'll look back on... that feeling.

Because great wedding photography in London is not about staging moments. It’s about recognising them. It’s about knowing when to step back during the speeches. When to pull you outside for five minutes of golden light before the party explodes again. When to let the confetti chaos be chaos.

As a London wedding photographer who is based in Hertfordshire but constantly capturing celebrations across the city, I’ve learned that no two London weddings ever feel the same. Different venues. Different energy. Different pace. Same heartbeat underneath it all.

Presence.

If you’re planning a wedding in London, whether that’s Old Marylebone Town Hall, a chic city registry office, a private dining room, or somewhere beautifully unexpected, and you want a London wedding photographer who will let you actually enjoy your day while quietly documenting the atmosphere, the fashion, the emotion and the dance floor carnage, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me what you want to feel when you look back in twenty years...